for the layered, complex, and complicated. aren’t we all?

your online big sis.

SPILL.

SPILL.

If you always do what you've always done,

you'll always get what you've always gotten.

So? switch it up.

HAVING A routinE is key.

but once you find yourself doing the same things over and over again simply because it’s “working” for you, IT’S ABSOLUTELY TIME TO HOP OUT THE COMFORT ZONE.

HINT HINT: THINK NOT ONLY ABOUT YOUR DAY-DAY ROUTINE, BUT HOW CAN WE ALSO REALTE THIS TO OUR RELATIONSHIPS? ARE YOU SHIFTING, GROWING, AND FLOWING OR ARE YOU STAGNANT, COMFORTABLE, AND BORED?

Your auto pilot/robot life is SENDING WORDS OF WISDOM- you’re FUCKING bored.

IT’S IMPORTANT TO still HAVE YOUR REST DAYS, KICK BACK AND WATCH rhobh (rinna this one’s 4 you girl), but being on the go, getting shit done, and conquering the day? that’s the minx n moody signature state of being. it’s time to sWITCH IT UP LADIES and get fucking moving.

Some flee the country and some get bangs.

Arguably, the bang route may be more severe, but in all seriousness, the smallest amount of change can REALLY impact your energy.

No one wants to be old, wrinkly, watching the same 4 movies over and over again.

but let me be clear, i absolutely will be 95, rotating She’s The Man, Princess Diaries, Aquamarine, and 10 Things I Hate About You and My grandchildren will fucking love me for it.

Working from home?

do yourself a favor and gtfo your house.

I’ll tell you-

I’m SO close to opening my own coffee business. I’ve literally tried every store front in chicago and 7/10 of their caramel syrup sucks. Fall is upon us, the pumpkin spiced bitches are rising from their graves. it’s time to find a solution. mine? master my barista skills and save a few (or 9) bucks.

Sick of seeing the same people?

make room for new ones.

i’m such a small circle kind of girl and it’s not the easiest to open yourself up. 1) you might question their intentions or 2) you’re “content” with what you already have. that’s a sad excuse. let people in.

it’s so fucking nice to meet people who have similar interests/priorities as you. a ton of us have our core best friends from high school, college, some from recent jobs, and that’s amazing, but there is something really fucking cool about crossing paths with people by chance and hitting it off right off the bat.

PRO-TIP: IF YOU’RE FEELING KIND OF AWKWARD AND WANT TO BE FRIENDS, LITERALLY JUST SAY “YO LET’S BE FRIENDS” AND I’M 99.5% SURE THEY’LL BE DOWN AND THAT’S IT. WE MADE A NEW FRIEND!